Leaders sometimes need to prod people to put their own interests above the expectations of others. These hard-working team members, colleagues and friends need a leader to remind them that sometimes it is okay to focus on their own needs and goals rather than putting others first.
Leaders turn to a well-worn phrase to get this done: “You owe it to yourself.”
This expression tells people they deserve to prioritize their own well-being and happiness without feeling guilty or hesitant about doing so. It encourages others not to neglect their own needs and aspirations. Because it comes from a leader, it suggests they have a right to pursue what is good for them without fear of evaluation.
“You owe it to yourself“ is a challenge only someone who cares about you would say. It’s a call to action. Leaders who use the expression ask others to prioritize their personal well-being, happiness and growth through self-care, pursuing dreams or making positive changes in their life. The statement empowers others because it suggests they have earned the right to honor themselves.
“You owe it to yourself” is one of the most uplifting statements a human being can offer to another. This simple expression boosts confidence, acknowledges a person’s self-worth, encourages the other party to make choices that align with their true desires, pushes them to take a step outside their comfort zone, and reminds them that the investments they have made shouldn’t be taken for granted.
Before addressing others, good leaders direct this expression at themselves, giving themselves permission to find personal happiness and satisfaction in what they pursue. Then they look for opportunities to remind others to do the same.
When was the last time you used this expression to lift up a team member, colleague or friend and give them the confidence to prioritize themselves?
People become so fixated on meeting the expectations of others, they often forget about what is in their own best interest.
The best leaders remind themselves that, sometimes, a simple expression can have a tremendous influence on the personal well-being of others. As a compassionate and caring leader, you “owe it to yourself” to use this expression more often.
